Eight fatal classical problems in life
Question one,
If there is a restaurant near your family, the things are expensive and also terrible, still climb the cockroach on the desk, you will because very near and very convenient in it, one again, is 3 come over and then?
Answer: You are sure to say, what rotten problem is this, who so cumbersome, buy the crime to receive?
But same situation change pieces of occasion, oneself do similar foolish thing right away perhaps.
Many men and women have all ever complained their lover or spouse has improper moral character, shilly-shally, non- responsible. Know perfectly well, have no good result together, hate already even many than love, but ” whether why know ” Mix with him, can not say good-bye. In fact, just for being unwilling, in order to be used to, is not this the same as coming over the restaurant too?
–Conduct oneself, why will be be too persistent? !
Question two,
If you lose 100 yuan because of carelessness, only know it seems to throw in a certain place that you pass by, will you spend the fare of 200 yuan looking for back those 100?
Answer: A super and stupid problem.
However, the similar thing is happening in life constantly. Do a thing wrong, know perfectly well oneself is problematic, also unwilling to admit a fault, the time to take instead looks for the excuse, let others give a great discount to one’s own impression. Been scolded a word, but it is sad to take countless time, the reason is the same. It is a thing that goes off, does not hesitate to speak sarcastically unfavorably, abuse the principal, abuse time, only in order to retaliate, is not it boring equally too?
Lose a person’s emotion, know perfectly well everything has been already unable to retrieve, but so sad, and sad or several years, drown one’s sorrows in liquor, thinned to the bone. In fact such a little is used not to have, just lose more.
–Conduct oneself, what is doing awkward oneself? !
Question three,
Because you will open the newspaper and find that there is a traffic accident every day, do not go out?
Answer: What rotten problem is this? Surely not, then let put off easily by a slight riskly.
However, many people have said: The present divorce rate is so high, let me not dare to fall in love. Speak still very naturally. There is no young girl either to see a great deal of relevant reports, is weighed down with anxieties for one’s own remaining half, is this a similar response? As it always goes, optimistic, but must believe: Though how hard and dangerous the road is, I am still a safe person who crossed the road of that meeting, so long as I am a bit more careful!, needn’t fear to cross the road.
–Conduct oneself, should believe oneself first.
Question four,
Do you believe everybody can succeed in setting up one’s own business at will?
Answer: Certainly will not believe.
But according to observation, someone is always listening to and finishing the suggestion that the work personage racks one’s brains, for example, study more, after practising more, have asked another question? Is not that very difficult?
All of us want to learn English well within 3 minutes, solve all difficult problems within 5 minutes, is it so easy to succeed? It is certainly difficult to change. Only fearless of difficulty to succeed, so could be transcendent.
Once sit on the taxi, hear the driver see that all top-grade cars before and after oneself, sigh over with feeling still: “Well, why others are so rich, is it so difficult for my money to earn? ”
I ask to him on a sudden impulse: “You think in the world having what money easy to make? ” He can not answer out, crossed and said half on the day: It seems to be all that others’ money is more easy to make.
In fact any winner is all obtained by hardships. We shouldn’t really complain about destiny.
–Conduct oneself, depend on oneself!
Question five,
You think the person not playing basketball at all, can act as very good basketball coach?
Answer: Certainly impossible, it is impossible for the layman to lead experts.
However, there are a lot of people, does not understand a certain trade at all, only hear that trade is good **,Will open the getting up industry at once. I have seen it to in not having any taste, or not minding the person who wears at all, the dream but it is a clothes shop of the room; Wonder the person how the computer started the machine, but think on the net **,Say result,it introspects oneself but to be abilities professional the insufficient,I when not complaining only and.
–Conduct oneself, do things within the limits of one’s own resources.
Question six,
Similar but different problem: You think basketball court, coach of basketball, close eyes too may leading factor one perfect victory?
Answer: Sick, it is certainly impossible.
But have many friend, oneself have no time, type, cut, risk one’s life investment turn on in the coffee house, open the restaurant, open the company that oneself does not understand at all, it is anxious to use up the arduous savings that save equally to burn * shares, go to work as a muddleheaded investor. There are more ones that lose always than the ones that earned, but think because oneself is unlucky, the idea goes wrong.
–Conduct oneself, remember making a thorough review on oneself.
Question seven,
Would rather regret you forever than try oneself and lead to victory?
Answer: I’m afraid nobody will say: ” right, I am such a coward ” .
However, we often beat a retreat while beating a retreat desperately, fail without daring to try to succeed for being frightened. The excellence while winning the figure skating champion in the world in 2000 with Guan Yingshan is shown as the example: She wanted to gain the first place wholeheartedly, but before the last match, her total mark only ranked the third, on the last free song project, she has chosen to break through, but not make mistakes little. Long Qu Zhong in 4 minutes, has combined for the highly most difficult three weeks and jumped, and jumped twice in succession boldly. She can know very uglily, but she has succeeded after all.
She says: “Because I do not want to wait until failing, just regret having potentiality not to give play to oneself. ” A Chinese great man has said; Victorious hope and recovery of favorable situation, often evolve from the efforts to adhere to again.
–Conduct oneself, might as well go all out to fight.
Question eight,
Your time is limitless, alive for evermore, so the thing wanted to do most, should postpone limitlessly?
Answer: No, the fool will think so.
But we often say, wait for me to be old, will travel around the world; Wait for me to retire, will do the thing wanted to do soon; Waiting for children to grow up, I am all right
All of us thought all of us are limitless time and energy. In fact we can realize ideal in one step and one step, needn’t consume the life in waiting in vain. Can make great efforts now it close one step each,we would not half a lifetimes living, but the final result that oneself wants to see least appears.
–Conduct oneself, it is here instantly to live