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Understand and forgive

One kind moves letting and understands and forgives
In marriage life, one kind moves letting and loves each other dearly, one kind moves letting and helps each other when both are in humble circumstances, another kind moves letting and understands and forgives. The marriage is like going a sail of boats in the sea, calm sometimes, plain sailing; There are storms sometimes, there are submerged reeves, only row and move the oar forgiven, the sail understood hang up, make concerted efforts to reach the happy other shore.

One kind moves letting and understands and forgives as a pair of lovers, the one that is bringing in the love is vigorous and warm and touching, bring happy hope in future life, at the marriage of coming into, can find among marriage life, embodiment is dull. Although the love is very romantic, the marriage is very true, when more wonderful love has a dream that wakes up after all, come in the ones that always come back to the fuel,rice,oil and salt and basic daily necessities are realistic.

If liken the love to the romantic serenade of effete and sentimental writings in general, that marriage is one pot of bowl wooden dipper basin destiny symphonies, play the most sincere movement, is composing the warm melody of the ordinary but fascinating family. The love in the marriage will no longer often mention finally, it is mostly the mutual waiting each other slowly, mutual support, it is not enough to only observe love of the marriage, will go to manage diligently, maintain.

The marriage is not a person’s thing, the people in the marriage all want to be responsible for marriage. There is such a clever saying: “The marriage is the only alliance without leader, but both sides all think they themselves are leaders. ” Just think, the men and women whom a pair of strangers met in the marriage, should make trials and hardships in the same eave for decades, and have one’s own sex. As the personality clash, has often brought the friction of the family, a lot of families flash the redlight because of the personality clash, at this moment, need mutual understanding and forgive even more. The love, like water, the marriage is like the cup, when the love is precipitated, have looked on as the marriage and presented the hiccup, we should shake cup gently, spend, understand and contain, precipitate

If liken the marriage to the car, the love is the light, and it is the oil to forgive, be forbearing and conciliatory, show consideration for. In a concrete marriage life, in the man’s furious time, the standing of the woman can dissolve the war; When the woman enabled young temper, forgiving dissolving this kind to pester of the man, even the fierce conflict takes place, will turn danger into safety. Human supreme realm of love, come back kindred shared weal and woe to arrive, come back among marriage that undertake the responsibility together, already so-called ” hold the sub hands, take old with son ” .

It is integration pharmaceutical in a marriage to forgive, but forgive and use so excessive as to become and connive atly, it turns the happy marriage into a painful cage gradually like chronic poison. If forgive the candy looked like in marriage life, criticize and correct the salt looked like in marriage life, there are only right amount of candies and salt, marriage life will be tasteful.

Marriage life enables people to know a lot of things from the middle school. The mutual one forgives and understanding, is the most gentle part while loving. As the marriage middleman, we should learn to taste and read one’s own marriage carefully, scrutinize oneself in the marriage carefully, and then in order to the sight that is full of appreciating, go to see the remaining half sharing weal and woe with you. Want, learn product one cool fragrance among getting light tea even more, learn, sample fragrance of marriage among dull course.

The happiness in the marriage, is in fact a kind of feeling, formed after the emotion in the marriage is piled up, it is the precious memory strung by the true feelings. It might not be whether everybody can understand or can share. So this kind of emotion and memory, will all collect in the party’s heart, deposit in honeycomb like the pollen, will make out the happiness some day. Move you in twinkling of an eye destining to have many in the marriage, the quiet one runs out from those memory in the past on those dull days, sometimes even if only one share is moved, can lead to the happiness in all one’s life.

The marriage does not also have regret that can be eaten
Marry a man loving dearly me at 30 years old

I am very nitpicking to the love, in the twenties, the appearance is viable, have a steady job, the man courting it is numerous too. However, I am unmoved. Because I have not met the person that oneself likes. The woman’s youth can not be stood delaying, after several years, the woman above the average age for marriage that I became nearly 30. Parents are anxious because of my marriage, I begin to ” compromise ” in the heart too ,Think that will really marry oneself.

It is at this time, Liao Fan appeared. He is several years older than I, had once had a transient marriage. Every optimist Liao, have a good temper, style of conversation humorous and witty, stay with him you can feel very light, very happy. I have a good impression on Liao Fan, but that kind of feeling can not be counted as loving. But I know, Liao Fan loves me very much. I think, since can’t find the person that oneself loves very much, look for one to love a one’s own one. After getting along for one year, we got married, that year, I am 30 years old.

Every first typical house man Liao. He loves dearly me very much, unwilling to let me cook, the hands afraid of me become coarse. What the clothes are washed by him too is many. While having a meal, he often can’t help feeding for me to eat; He gentleman very much, goes out together, he is sure to let me walk on the inboard of the road; When raining, if there is only an umbrella, must all prop up on one side of this of mine, came back home, half a body of his is drenched, but I have not drenched a drop of rain

Under Liao Fan’s treatment, after several years, my hands have all been delicate all the time, not becoming the old woman of yellow face either, the friend says, I have seemed so young all the time.

The ones that can’t tolerate him “  Non- enterprising ”

The friends all envy me, there is such a gentle husband that showed consideration for. However, life is not always perfect.

We have house, get married, live on one small family type that hire out. Liao Fan and I are ordinary company clerks, two people’s monthly salary is fewer than 3000 yuan altogether. Because of the economic reason, we can not afford the house, do not dare to want the child either. However, live in the house rented, I am not always very steady and sure. “How good if have one’s own houses? ” I often have fantasies of like this. “Take your time, it is very good too to live in the house that is hired out. ” Liao but not worry about such a thing allly. He keeps to the conventional way of going to work, keeps to the conventional way of living, the buoyant ground of every day, it seems that there is not any trouble. I am tired of Van Liao “  Non- enterprising “  . A man, how could have dedication like this?

After 5 years, our life seems to come to a halt. Fan Liao as before kind to me, but he kind to me, I appreciate the kindness, see him non- pleasing to the eye. “Has not seen such your man not enterprising, do not you feel good-for-nothing? ” Sometimes, I push bringing in hot meal Liao open, shout towards him. It is worried to say him, our calm life is full of the smell of gunpowder too

The ones that and then miss the ex-husband after marriage are good

While feeling blue, it is drunk tea and chatted that I go out with the friend. A chance of the chance, I meet Lu Peng who just came to Hainan from the continent, on Lu Peng’s body, I have seen a man’s maturity is calm and steady. Gradually, the balance of the emotion begins to slope

Having associated with the land roc for less than one year, I divorced and got married again.

In fact, Lu Peng has no house, he does not have even a steady job. We live in a house hired out all the same after getting married. While falling in love, always show best one side to the other side each other. I know the land roc smokes, but has not expected, he has heavy craving for tobacco, since getting married, only the land roc is at home, in the room is always chaotic state in which corrupt practices prevail, full of bad smell of cigarette; He like, drink, sometimes it drink until very late coming back; He is very slovenly, soiled clothes, discredited socks are thrown out without care everywhere; What let people unable to stand most is, he likes surfing the Net and playing games, come back in the evening to sit in front of the computer, the buttocks does not play before dawn lifting   He has very irritable temper, says that will stamp with rage more.

Lu Peng was at the end of the 1990s last century, once became a middle level leader in a state-owned enterprise. Later, enterprises went bankrupt bankrupt, Lu Peng was laid off too. He looks down upon the ordinary post, looks down upon the usual work, always say again and again that will do loud business. Such a psychology has caused him for many years, it is unable to enter the life state steady and surely.

After marrying and giving the land a roc, all house work is mine, nobody will afraid my hands will become coarse, nobody will take good care of me carefully as treating princesses too. I often think, whether destiny teases me on purpose, I dislike and avoid the ex-husband for being not to strive to make progress; However, marry a man aiming too high again now. How many nights, I ” fight ” alone when the roc throws in the land When network game, I will toss about in bed, I miss Liao all, but, I know, he has a new girl friend, I can not go back again

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